Oh the Things they Say {Mama’s Sister and the Fulgurites}

Judah (14) and Apollo (19 mo). Photo by littleearthling on Instagram.

I’ve mentioned before what a big talker Apollo is. Well, several times recently I’ve asked him, “are you Mama’s boy?” and “are you Mama’s baby?” Usually he’ll repeat “Mama’s boy” or “Mama’s baby” to me. So cute.

Well the other day he asked for “hot chocolate” his name for the dark chocolate he eats (one of the few dairy free sweets he can have). The name is a bit ironic in and of itself since  we keep in the fridge, so it’s technically “cold chocolate”. But I digress.

Adalia gave him a piece of chocolate and I said, “Is Adalia your favorite sister?” and he answered, “No, Mama’s sister!” and snuggled up with me. So for the last few days he’s been snuggling with me and saying, “Mama’s sister”.

I told Adalia I’ve always wanted a sister…I just hoped she’d be female…and not my son.

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A week or so ago Tucker was playing in the living room and hollered, Mo-om, Avi’s using her magic powers to knock my tower down!

*sigh*

And speaking of arguing…yesterday I heard Hezekiah yell, “Stop calling us fulgurites!”

And in other news, I finally got a Waldorf doll assembled for Apollo. We’ve been gently talking to him about going to hospital, how the doctors are going to fix his heart so he can eat and breathe. So while he was snuggling with his new “baby” I asked him, “Are you going to take your baby with you when you go to the hospital?” to which he responded, “No! Baby wa-wa park!” Poor little guy, any time we mention the hospital he insists he’s going back to Great Wolf Lodge.

And yes, I did just  tell Avi not to put knitting needles in her nose…

A New Year a New Blog?

I’ve been toying with the idea of switching my blog to WordPress for quite a while. One of the reasons is so that I can post my photos bigger. So I thought, with the new year and all, I’d try things over here for a while. Please chime in and let me know what you think.

So, Murphy’s Law came to visit our house. A mere two days after I spent hours with the boys sorting they LEGO by color into  our new fancy-schmancy bins, Apollo learned to climb out of his crib. Why does this matter, you ask? Because the LEGO were stored in the  boys’ room where Apollo slept. a fine situation when he was caged in. Not so fine now that he has learned to escape. So, the LEGO need a new home.

And at the moment that new home happens to be our dining room. It’s not so bad since they are all contained in two plastic bins with drawers. And since they were up here, all sorted and handy, Kalina, Mordecai, Jubilee, Hezekiah, Avi and Tucker spent from 8 am to 2 pm playing with them (with a break for breakfast and lunch). My theory is that it is better to have the LEGO up here in plain sight where we can teach Apollo to stay out of them rather than have him be able to climb out of bed and access them in secret.

Another bonus is that since they are up here, I was able to supervise the mess being made. Every hour or so I would have them pick up any pieces that had fallen to the floor and at dinner  time any loose pieces were put back in the bins (projects were stored on our dining room counter). We shall see how long this arrangement lasts.

And we shall also see how well Apollo adjusts to a new bed. Perhaps this will be the key to a night’s sleep?

The Winner and Edible Cells

The winner of the Lilla Rose give away is Anna who left this comment:

I love the Lilla Rose flexi. I see them on other blogs I follow and I've been wanting to try them out myself!

Anna please email me (bergerondozen@yahoo dot com) and I'll get you in touch with Linda. 

Thank you to everyone who participated!

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Don't be fooled by the photos- these were taken over a month ago. It's downright chilly now.

I have done a terrible job of planning activities for school so far this year. It's been bookwork heavy with very few fun projects sprinkled in. I plan to change that. I must change that. 

Here is one of the few fun projects we have done. Making edible cells. I honestly did very little prep, and the younger kids in particular would have learned a whole lot more if I would have planned better, but it was fun and making school and learning fun is an end in itself. 

Adalia, Judah and Tilly are all studying Biology this years so this was a great way to help them remember the parts of a cell. 

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The plans for this are here on the blog Spell Outloud. A great little blog if you are looking for some hands on projects or unit studies.

What are you up to these days? Please, inspire me. I need it.

 

A Slob Comes Clean….

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That's the name of my new favorite blog (along with You Can't Call It "It" and Crappy Pictures, of course). I'm on a blog-discovering roll lately, it seems. 

I posted over on Facebook recently that I'm getting rid of a bunch of our books (if you're local and want some, let me know- leftovers will head to Goodwill this weekend). Basically with the room swap over here we lost a whole lot of our bookshelf space…so I have culled and sorted and sorted and culled until it hurts and we still have too many books. Then in a moment of pure epiphany I decided to keep only as many books and we could fit on our current shelf space.

Brilliant don't you thing?

Astounding!

Daring even!

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After mulling over my "drastic" decision for a few days it suddenly occurred to me to wonder why it seemed so extreme. I mean it's the only thing that makes sense, really. Books are awesome…I love books. My kids love books. My husband loves books.  But that doesn't change the fact that we only have so much space in our house (and on our shelves). And we have this cool place called the library where we can borrow books to read and then return them when we are done- to be stored on someone else's shelves!

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Imagine how blissfully uncluttered our lives would be if we only kept what we had space for? I know we could do it. Chuck and I lived in a tiny one room basement suite when Tilly (our third child) born. She was born in that house, in fact. Adalia (2) and Judah (1) shared the bedroom while Chuck and I (and then Tilly) slept in the living room. Our futon was our couch and our bed. And believe it or not, it wasn't cluttered. Even with two toddlers and a newborn I kept things to a minimum and it worked very well for us.

When we moved into our current house we had seven children. Now we have fourteen (though only eleven live at home- two years ago we had thirteen at home). Things are getting tigher. Now only are there now more people (and bigger people) but our house doubles as a one room schoolhouse…and triples as office for my business and my husband's business.

So my new goal? Too keep only what fits comfortably in our house. Humans get priority.

How about you?

Is yor living space comfortable?

Cluttered?

Or both?

Mordecai’s First Day of School

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Mordecai, age 9. Isn't he simply adorable? 

For the reader who asked, yesterday was Mordecai's first day of school ever. The decision to put him in school came after much prayer, thought and discussion with his doctor. Mordecai was diagnosed with Static Encephelopathy Alcohol Exposed at age 2 1/2. In plain, brutal English, that means brain damage from prenatal alcohol exposure. Along with learning difficulties he deals with behavioral issues and rage. It was the behavior issues that sealed my decision to send him to school, not his academic skills. I won't go into all the drama here and now, but that's why he is in school. I don't think he will act out in school to the extent he does at home. He doesn't like to "grump" in front of his friends or when we are out in public so I am hoping that carries over into school.

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Mordecai boarded the school bus without a backward glance. He is in the Intensive Learning class. Apparently we can't use the term "special ed" because that might hurt the kids self-esteem or something? I don't know. There are seven students, one teacher and two aids in his class. 

His school is small and only a five minute's drive from our house, despite our rural location. And since we live in a rural location, the school bus picks him up right at the top of our driveway. My little guy was gone from 9:55 to 4:10 yesterday. What a long day for a kid who gets exhausted from two hours of Cub Scouts!

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When he came home he headed straight for the couch and opened his lunch box. All he had eaten was his sandwich. He proceeded to eat the rest of his lunch and listen to books  read by his siblings. I asked Mordecai to tell me two things that he did in school and he said he couldn't remember…I asked him to tell me one thing he did and after much thought he said, "played at recess". 

So that's about all I know about his day. I let him play the Gameboy (a rare treat in our house) becasue I could see how very tired he was and how much he just needed some down time. I had to meet a client at 6:00, then Hilary for Grump Therapy, so I wasn't here to see him the rest of the evening. I do wonder how enthusiastic he'll be to head off today….

School Planning 2011-2012 Update

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Well, I just checked over the list I made nearly a month ago and I have completed every item except two. I just need to organize my school planning notebook and finish writing academic goals for my children. Our books and supplies have been ordered and are arriving daily via the mail and UPS. 

As you can see, we've picked some classics for Literature (a class I lead with Adalia, Judah and Tilly). To the right you see my inbox. Completed work will be placed there so I don't forget to check it. In fact, my inbox is full right now since Tilly couldn't wait another day to begin school.

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I had several people ask about school boxes for my younger children. I couldn't answer before since I hadn't purchased them yet. These boxes were bought at Office Max. I believe they are called A Very Useful Box…or something like that. These are big enough to fit my four youngest students: books, colored pencils, an activity or two, etc. These shelves are in our dining room right behind our table. In years past we've kept everyone's school books in magazine holders on these shelves. The problem was, our dining room is so crowed it caused constant conflict: bumping into people, constantly trying to squeeze behind somone to grab your book, shuffling around, the shelf was too crowded, etc. Now my little ones can just grab their entire box when our school day begins and put it away when they are finished. I will be able to fill the boxes with their assignments and a project or game or puzzle for the day.

So where did all of our school books go then?

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Into our living room. Adalia, Judah, Tilly, Enoch and Kalina each have a slot on this shelf in our living room. I chose white binders this year since I have to stare at them all day. I like the unifomity. It makes it look a bit less cluttered. 

Now to answer some of the questions that came in. 

Rebecca asked:  how will I be able to homeschool AND care for a very busy two year old boy AND be pregnant at the same time AND find a way to lead my four year old along the journey, even though she is not quite ready (or willing) to formally learn??

When mine were this little (with the oldest only seven) we didn't do a lot of formal "school". We read tons (and I mean tons of books). Fiction, math, history, science. We read about animals and seasons and shapes and farms and space and other cultures. You get the idea. We baked homemade bread and made playdough. Did did art projects and build things out of blocks and boxes and books. We exlpored any topic that caught our interest. I realize this isn't everyone's style, but it worked for us and those children are now high school age doing just fine.

Christy (who has just little ones) asked: The school books arrived and now I am feeling a bit overwhelmed…How do I get started? Any advice would help.

My advice here would be to start with only one subject at a time. Take a week or two to ease them into the school routine. We always start with a read aloud (and yes, even my teens still love this). Gather them around read a story (or two or three) then do one activity. Work on reading while your little ones nap. After you feel like you have this routine down, add in a second activity or subject. No reason to start everything on the same day…

{Thank you, thank you to everyone who commented on the photos posted yesterday. It really helps to hear what other people think/feel/see when they view an image. I think I am going to print all three and hand them together on my wall…}

Life is Good {But It’s Even Better at the Pool}

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Once again, my brave, courageous and generous friend Delia invited us over for a swim- and fixed us lunch to boot!

We got off to a bit of a shaky start with complete cloud coverage and a chilly breeze. But by lunch time that was a memory and the children finally quit shivering.

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Kalina, 10

Oh, and having a built in hot tub definitely helps in those chillier moments.

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My favorite shot of the day is an Instagram photo taken with my phone. Avi refused to let me take pictures with my actual camera, so here's the Instagram version (username littleearthling if you want to find me there!) Would you believe this little girl finished off two large hamburgers with all the fixings for lunch?

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Tucker (5) came up to me and in his little husky, lispy voice said, "Hey Mom, it's cloudy with a chance of goggles!" What a clever boy. See why I love kids so much? 

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Mordecai, 8, loved the pool as usual. The fact that he was wearing a floaty suit didn't stop him from diving off the the diving board. Yes, diving. After watching a few of the other kids, he put his arms out, tucked his head, and with perfect form dove off the diving board. Repeatedly. His floatation suit made sure he soon popped to the surface. What a guy!

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Apollo loved the pool. In fact he threw a fit when I tried to take him out.

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Hezekiah, age 7

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Enoch, age 11

And now, a study in little boys.

Exhibit A:

Hezekiah, age 7

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First walk slowly across the diving board and carefully calculate your stragety.

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Carefully jump off to avoid injury.

Exhibit B:

Tucker, age 5

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Run across the diving board as fast as you can for maximum speed.

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Jump as high as you can!

Ah, I love my little boys.

Thanks again, Delia, for a marvelous time!

 

 

 

Large Families, Homeschooling and Blueberries

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Yesterday we headed out for our annual blueberry picking. I grabbed my camera and was dismayed to see that both of my batteries were dead. Since I'm not on call for a birth at the moment, I haven't been compulsive about making sure my batteries are fully charged and ready to go. Bummer. So my Instagram photos will have to suffice.

We showed up at Bjornstad Farms just past 9:30. Why Bjordstad? They have my faithful business. Becasue they like my kids. They don't automatically assume that if I show up with children numbering in the double digits we are going to destroy the place. Therefore I drove past a dozen U-pick farms to get to theirs.

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At any rate, I showed up to be greeted with, "What do we have hear today?". 

"We want to pick blueberries" I answered.

"Great! And what group do we have here?"

Ah. That's what she meant.

"This group is my family" I explained. Her and her husband then exclaimed over my fine looking bunch of children and showed us where to head. So nice.

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Our goal was 100 pounds. One hundred because that's how much money I had to spend, not because that's all we could eat.

When we went to get our blueberries weighed we had ninety-nine pounds. Not bad. 

Ninety-nine pounds of blueberries picked in 45 minutes. Add in the pound Apollo ate off of the ground, and we could call it an even one hundred.

We now have sixteen gallons of blueberries in our freezer to use throughout the year. Go Team Baker's Dozen!

Now for homeschooling… I have sat down three times so far this summer and tried to plan out the framework of our upcoming school year. The dynamics will be quite different since Keziah and Boaz are at Job Corps and Mordecai will be at school. Every single time I've at down I've drawn a complete blank. I don't know where to start or what do. Ack.

Enter Timberdoodle (my favorite homeschooling resource- it should be your favorite too!) I just saw a link to these planning pages on their Facebook page and it has solved my planning crisis. I am systematically typing in school books, number of week and feeling a sense of  order. Once I do this for each student I plan to print a copy for my planning notebook and one of my students' binders. 

THEN, I can get on to adding in the fun stuff.

Thank you again, Timberdoodle. You've been a resource for our family for the past ten years and a decade later are still a help to me!

Thank you to those of you who  responded about homeschooling. I will be working on the posts over the next few days as time allows.

School…Again?

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Like it or not, I'm mentally (if not physically) gearing up for the new school year. The weather is finally, finally nice, so this week is chock full of summer type activities. Like playing outside. Swimming. And picking blueberries. As far as school prep though, here's my list of what to do so far:

    *Clear out school cupboards. I plan to empty these out and only put back in what we will be actively using this year. These cupboards are in our dining room, so anything not currently in use can be stored elsewhere. 

    * Sort big kids school stuff. For the last couple of years we have used magazine holders to sort each child's school books, but for my high school/ and middle schoolers they are just too small. So, I plan to store their books in the dividers in the living room shelf Chuck built.

    * Find a place for our art supplies. If anyone out there has any suggestions on brilliant, efficient and/or visually attractive ways to sort school supplies, please, let me know.

    * Make photo cards of kindergarten activities. This will be mainly for Avi and Tucker. I want to be able to slip a couple of cards into their school bins so they know what to do. My three highest-need students won't be in our little homeschool this year, so I really want to focus on getting these two off to a good start.

    * Get an "inbox" for work that needs to be checked.

    * Get school boxes for little kids. Find a place to store said school boxes.

    * Write down academic goals for each child. These will be printed and placed in my school binder for my reference.

    * Orgainize school planning notebook.

    * Finalize list of books and curriculum to order.

That's my list so far…I also want to have the first month of school planned (worksheets copied, etc) before we begin. And thinking about the new school year has me thinking about a couple of posts to recommend resources, etc. 

Is there anything you would like to know about? Any questions you have as I get my "back to school" posts up and running? Leave a comment and I'll add it to the posts I'm working on. Have any suggestions, awesome tips? Leave a comment. If you blog, feel free to leave a link to any posts that relate. 

Oh, and be sure to enjoy the rest of summer!

My Tucker…

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is cuter than your Tucker!

Sorry, with a face like this, I just couldn't resist. No offense if you happen to have your own Tucker at home. I'm sure he's very handsome as well!

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My  Tucker is 5 and a half years old. Brown eyed and chipped-toothed.

He's wild and crazy as ever.

Eager to learn (his daily chant is: one two three four I like math let's do some more!)

He's left handed. He's developed a mole in above his lip in the exact spot Jubilee has one.

He hates spaghetti sauce.

I am currently reading The Austere Academy out loud to him.

It's book five in A Series of Unfortunate Events.

He still speaks with the cutest little lisp you ever did here.

He is learning to read.

He has a little journal and he will spend an hour at a time copying books into it.

He has copied Hop on Pop and Fox in Socks….all with no spaces between the words which makes for interesting reading!

And best of all? He is a mama's boy!